Friday, April 28, 2006

Hey dudes,

Courtesy: An electronic mail forward from my friends Archana Muralidharan & Aysha Banu. (infact i m in the mailing list of both ;-))

This is yet another best email forward. Feel so happy while reading and wish all of us should try implementing these in our lives atleast to certain extent. The life is not only for us but also to the people around us.. wassay?

Just to quote, i lend the dialogues of Manirathnam (the great film director of Tamilnadu, India) in his movie Naayagan (casting kamalhaasan), "naalu pearukku nalladhu nadakkumna ethuvumea thappilla" [Translation: If your deeds yield some good things for others, nothing is wrong and you dont need to bother about anything else]

A wonderful story comes from 19th Century England. According to the account, Queen Victoria was once at a diplomatic reception in London.


The guest of honor was an African chieftain. All went well during the meal until, at the end, finger bowls were served. The guest of honor had never seen a British finger bowl, and no one had thought to brief him beforehand about its purpose. So he took the bowl in his two hands, lifted it to his mouth, and drank its contents down!


For an instant there was breathless silence among the British privileged guests, and then they began to whisper to one another. All that stopped,however, when Queen Victoria silently took her finger bowl in her two hands, lifted it, and drank its contents! A moment later, 500 surprised Britishladies and gentlemen simultaneously drank the contents of their own finger bowls. It was the queen's uncommon courtesy that guarded her guestfrom certain embarrassment.


"Knowledge, ability, experience are of little avail in reaching high success if courtesy be lacking," says George D. Powers.


"Courtesy is the one passport that will be accepted without question in every land, in every office, in every home, in every heart in the world. For nothing commends itself so well as kindness; and courtesy is kindness."


"When every thing seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it..." -- Henry Ford

 
posted by Raghavan alias Saravanan M at Friday, April 28, 2006 | 0 comments
Thursday, April 27, 2006
Hey Dudes,

This is one of the excellent emails i have ever received. Thanks to my dear friend Prabhu S for sharing this. Believe & Bet you also would love reading this.

Though most of us would have the same thinking but not sure of its level of implemetation. It would be great, if we try to implement it in our day-to-day life!

Actual mail content goes here. Its entitled "Father & Son ~ Son & Father"

An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45year's old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, "What is this?".
The Son replied "It is a crow".


After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"
The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".


After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, whatis this?"
At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone whenhe said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a crow".


A little after, the Father again asked his Son the 4th time, "What isthis?"
This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me thesame question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'ITIS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"


A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an oldtattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On openinga page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary:-

"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when acrow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly eachtime he asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".

While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father hadfelt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son feltirritated and annoyed.


So...

If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and Kind to them. Be considerate to your parents. From today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since Iwas a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat tomake me a person presentable in the society today".

Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave".

Friends the only motive behind what is being said above is to respect ur parents bcoz they are the one who brought u to this world...I hope understand.

I love my parents...[Unconditionally]
 
posted by Raghavan alias Saravanan M at Thursday, April 27, 2006 | 6 comments
Hey ppl,

Well, This is my very first blog i have ever successfully made though created two blogs an year back but dint do anything with that. One among them was for my Poems (of course its my special hobby which helped me to be identified uniquely in my schoolings, graduations and career also!).

Will have to do much work for the poetry blog, but not now. so all blogfathers (ancestors of me in bloggin ;-)) give your suggestions and comments!

Hope to have a good time with the world of bloggin and to get a good experience & friends! Of course, its more or less like a Diary which we ourselves allow others to read either anonymously or thru invitation!

Cya!
Good times ahead!
Raghavan alias Saravanan M.
 
posted by Raghavan alias Saravanan M at Thursday, April 27, 2006 | 3 comments